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How to Create a Realistic Wedding Budget Without the Stress

Planning your Maryland wedding should be exciting, not overwhelming. A realistic wedding budget ensures you stay in control while prioritizing what matters most. 

Step 1: Determine Your Total Budget

Start with: 

  • Personal savings – What can you afford without stress?
  • Family contributions – Will relatives help?
  • Monthly savings – How much can you set aside before the big day?

Be honest about your limits to avoid financial strain.

Step 2: Prioritize What Matters Most

Decide where to splurge and where to save. Ask yourselves:

  • Do we want a top-tier venue or  high-end photography?
  • Is gourmet catering a must, or do we prefer live entertainment?

Your budget should reflect your priorities, not others expectations. 

Step 3: Break Down Your Budget

A typical wedding budget includes:

  • Venue & Catering (40-50%) – Reception, food, bar
  • Photography/Videographer (10-15%) – Capturing moments
  • Flowers & Decor (8-12%) – Ceremony, centerpieces
  • Entertainment (8-12%) – Band, DJ, Musicians
  • Planner/Coordinator (5-10%) – Stress-free execution 
  • Miscellaneous (5-10%) – Transportation, tips, unexpected costs 

Tip: Set aside 5% for unexpected expenses – dress alterations, vendor fees, or weather- related changes. 

Step 4: Research Local Costs

Costs vary by location, so research Maryland wedding prices early: 

  • Venues: $5,000-$20,000+
  • Catering: $75-$250 per guest 
  • Photography: $3,000-$7,000

Get vendor quotes to compare options and stay within budget.

Step 5: Track expenses & Adjust as Needed

Use spreadsheets or planning apps to monitor spending. If you over budget in one area, cut costs elsewhere (e.g., smaller floral arrangements).

Step 6: Smart Ways to Save

  • Book an off-peak date (Friday/Sunday) to save thousands
  • Trim your guest list to reduce catering and rental costs
  • Choose in-season flowers for better pricing
  • DIY selectively – personal touches can save money

Final Thoughts 

A well planned wedding budget ensures an stress-free experience. Focus on what truly matters and enjoy the journey!

At Top Shelf Wedding Planners, we help Maryland couples plan with ease. Need guidance? Reach out to Karen@topshelfwp.com, at TSWP we are here to help!